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Dear Ex MIL,

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When I divorced your son, I also divorced YOU. It means you cannot control me, and you cannot control my kids, no matter how much you pray for "God's will" to get your way. I do not have sympathy for you after having suffered through your manipulation for many years, when YOU were so much more important than every member of my immediate and extended family. Your excessive control and manipulation of your son is probably why he turned out to be a passive aggressive porn addicted psychopath. So now I get to figure out how to protect my children not only from him, but from your unrelenting manipulation. Let me be clear, your son has only been given SUPERVISED visitation and he is NOT entitled to leave town with them, and certainly NOT just because you want him to. If you would get your head out of your butt, you would see that your son is not mentally stable and should not be encouraged to spend unsupervised time with YOUR GRANDCHILDREN. Additionally, this means that he is not granted the priviledge of parading around town with them as SuperDad so that you can die believing what a great father your son turned out to be. You and your judgemental religious nut friends can keep on praying that you get your way, or you can pray for your son to get help. Your choice. But I will keep on living, doing what's right for my kids, and protecting them from the emotional and psychological abuse inflicted upon them by their father. And apparently, by YOU. JUST. GO. AWAY.

Sincerely,
my.kids.mom

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Nah...it felt good enough just typing it! I was inspired by some other posters who have family issues around the holiday. I felt SO much better typing it out.