Dead beat mothers.
Just interested to know how some are dealing with there step kid dead beat mothers. My step kids live with me and my hubby because children servies took them off her. She had no where for them to live and couldnt provide for them. Like we have a civil relationship. For the kids. But she annoys the crap out of me. She never been able to provide for her kids. She doesnt even buy them xmas or birthday gifts. When they where younger and they go over to her place for the weekend. She wouldnt have them over unless my husband bought food. She always claim she had no money and no food. Never paid child support.
Never helps when theres a issue with the kids she just brushes it off says ingore it. Which is easy to do when you dont have to face whatever the problem is 24/7. All she got to say is well there father wanted custody of them so he just has to deal with it. When it was her fault they got taken away in the first place. What was he supposed to do leave them in foster care. (Although i sometimes wish this did happen).
Then has the hide to whinge her kids got taken off her but at the same time doesnt really do anything for them. Or made a effort to make her life better so she could have them back. Now their older and get their own money. Every pay day shes rises from her slumber and she the worlds greatest mother. while she holds her hand out.
Like i know some of you maybe have it worse but it unbelievable the hide she has.