Day 2 of summer with sd came with a huge arguement SD went to ER
Ok, so EVERY summer with SD there is at least 1 huge arguement. This time, over a hair clip.
Sd16 let DD16 borrow a hair clip, DD left it in the bathroom. I run a home daycare, I take a little girl ro the bathroom, and she picks the hair clip up, i go to take it away from her, and thre girl lets go of it and it falls to the floor. A peice breaks off. I went to go let SD know, but she's alseep. I start cooking dinner.
Directly after dinner I have to take DD to the dr for a UTI. On our way home DD17 texts DD16 that SD16 is complaining to her and her friends that DD16 broke her clip just like she breaks everything of her.
Ok ill give a quick back story. Sd PURPOSELY broke DDs goggles because she was jealous that DD was on swim team. SD PURPOSELY destroyed DDs spiral notebook that had a mandala coloring fronts BEFORE it was popular, so it was IMPOSSIBLE to replace because i couldn't find it ANYWHERE online or in stores when i tried to replace it. SD is literally the one who breaks everything, DD hasn't broken anything if SDs before.
DD is pissed and tells sd that before she goes and spreads rumors she should talk to her first and get all the info. (There were a lot less nicer words used, but i don't blame her).
DH outs mad at DD17 for butting her nose in other people's business, but IMO you hear someone talking crap about me, you let me know. DH is mad that DD16 cussed at sd... i explain to him that just jire they talk to each other, SD "accidentally" drops f bombs, @ss, b!tc#, w#ore in front of the daycare kids, i kick her out of the room each time, and ive warned her and DH 1 more time and she's effectively going to be banned from my daycare space.
Anyways after trying to talk this all through and explain to sd that before telling her friends and DD17 that DD16 broke her headband, like she does everything, she really should have talked to DD FIRST. After this huge fight, that sd thinks DD17 is the only one in the wrong, she starts screaming in agonizing pain (which she'll do even when DH playfully pokes her side). She insists that she's in such horrible pain. We take her to the emergency room. 6hrs and $200 later all tests come back normal.... thanks SD for a wonderful start to our month long visit with you.