BM has again asked us to have SS(13) move in with us because she can't handle him. Before she changes her mind we want to go get a new custody order drafted up by a lawyer. We live 10 hrs away. We have no problems giving her all of summers, Christmas and other holidays but request transportation be on BM.
We are also asking for support which we don't assume to be much but even if it's to go to SS as his allowance. We want to ask for some legal and split custody as she has made some really bad decisions with SS in the past that has led to this.
Is there anything we should ask for or take note of? We have an appointment with the lawyer in the next couple of days.