Calling me names
my 1st post here, I’m desperate for advice and help.
We have a newborn 4 month old and 4 stepkids from my husbands previous marriage. They are 8,10,15 and 17. I get on really well with all of them. They visit two days per week and stay. My husband and I have been married for a year and together 4 years. We met when he was in the midst of a divorce and we moved in pretty soon after.
My issue is since my little girl has been born he has started calling me names during arguments. He blew up at me when it was his daughters birthday because I didn’t agree to dropping my baby with his mum so I could help with lifts, he came at me with fists clenched, called me names ‘b***ch’ and why can’t I just be normal. I had been at home preparing his daughters cake all morning.
Yesterday he called me a ‘f***ing c***’ because I wouldn’t hand him our daughter when she was crying from teething pain. He claimed I was embarrassing him in front of his friends and he could soothe her like I can.
What has happened to my husband?? I’m so sad and upset. I love his kids, he knows that but he never compliments me anymore or says I’m doing a good job with th em.
im at a loss and feel I’m always making an effort with his children and sorting the house out etc and he just is so angry with me all of a sudden? I asked him if anything was wrong and he said no, I asked why he wants to be with someone he hates so much he calls names and he said he loves me and we have been getting on so well.
my husband has a temper but has never been aggressive to me before just gone for lunch doors/walls etc
xxx thanks for reading ridiculous long post