BM's double standards again.......this time its the new Hubby
First of all, thank you to everyone for letting me VENT here. I am reading new posts with interest and while I wish we could all be the Brady Bunch, that is not my personal experience with step parenting. This site allows those of us who are excluded from Mike and Carol's family to vent which helps ease the pain and hurt associated with step parenting. And I do say HURT. Because for me, while I may be angry and upset and detached from the skids, underlying it is always hurt.
Ok, so for three year's BM has blasted us because we have tried to create a blended family, accusations and vile verbal crap about how I (as SM) have no right to have anyting to do with the skids, either with decision making, or physically etc. I wont give the entire details here She finally remarried a few months ago and now its all about "their blended family" with the new hubby's bio kids. Sunday family meetings to make sure all is running smooth, the skids have to run things by new hubby as well as BM, ad nauseum. Skids are to call new hubby's kids "brother and sister" but skids told NEVER to call my bio kids brother and sister!!! So the new hubby is to be directly involved but me, as SM must not be. :jawdrop: Not that, at this point I have detached completely. Its just the Double Standards that get to me. How can BM not see her double standards?