Bm thinks that b/c she can't handle things no one else can either.
SS11 has his grade school graduation tonight one at 1:30 and the other at 6:30. Bm texted dh and told him the other night about it but said that he will not be at the 6:30 one due to scheduling. (where ever that means). Dh said she is making sure I don't get to go.
Today bm texted and wanted to know which one he was going to go to? dh called her and said huh he will not be at the 6:30 and I have to work at 1:30 and can't get off b/c you didn't tell me til just the other night. Bm said that she won't be their but ss11 will be b/c she will be at the ss15 and ss14's concert! WHAT :jawdrop: and she is JUST now letting dh know! Dh said he went off on her an told her that he should have been told long before now about all this going on so he can make arrangements. Bm said that she didn't tell him b/c it was too much to lay out all at once and for him to soak in. HUH?? She said that she is having a hard time keeping up and knows he would too so she didn't want to spring it all on him at once.
Um ok whatever. Dh told her that he is not that sensitive and she needs to let him know what is going on so he can make sure he is there! He told her he was tire of that crap and that he is their father not some random dude.