BM Playing Games?
I'm new here, I've 'lurked' for some time and now I feel its time to ask for some advice. I have kids, my husband has 2 kids (my stepkids). Their mom has 'sole' custody, we get the kids 2 nights a week until 7:30pm and every other weekend, during the school year. During the summer, we get them 2 nights a week overnight and every/other weekend.
BM has signed one of the kids up in a sport that is VERY time consuming and could last all year round. One of the 'practice' days lands on our night. We will not have time to do homework or eat supper, which isnt fair to the other kids. And my DH and I both work full time. So, we asked BM if we could switch nights. She does not work. She is set and will not budge. We've been to mediation countless times in the past and nothing ever gets resolved... SO- where do we go from here? How do we STOP her game playing? This has went on for over 8 years now. Any advice would be appreciated!