BM is just to Busy
So, last month we got notified that DCSS was going to look into the amount of child support that SO is paying BM, since recently BM got a full time job...shocking I know. We then received notification that due to BM's lack of response to paperwork, they were closing the case without changing anything. SO called them to find out what he could do. They told him that since BM was the one who notified them to the change, and instigated the hearing, that when the parent who instigated the hearing "drops" the case, i.e. does not turn in their paperwork, that they don't make any changes or go after either parent's job to find out about income. They did tell SO that he could ask that they look into changing the support amount, and if BM failed to turn in her paperwork that they would get her records from her job. SO asked them to look into it.
A couple of days ago, SO asked BM if she had completed her paperwork. According to her, she is just to busy now that she has a full time job to finish.
I find it funny that when she worked a part time job, she was to busy, and when she wen't to online college, she was to busy. When she got a BF, she was way to busy to worry about court paperwork. I seriously wonder how busy she could be. SO works full time, takes classes part time, and has his daughter 50% of the time, yet he can somehow manage to complete all of his obligations...on time.
She has 5 more days before DCSS starts to get aggressive. I can't wait