Appropriate or NOT?
So I just wandered if about a situation that seems to keep happening in my hell of step life. It isn't a big deal so to say but seems odd.
BM contacted MIL/FIL about going to SD8's grandparents day at school. BM contacted them directly, MIL was the one that told DH about it. DH even asked is EXMIL/FIL going to be there with ya'll too? DH kind of chuckled but MIL looked horrified and said IDK.
Here is the backstory which is why I say this is odd. First off MIL/FIL do not like BM. BM knows they dont like her. They dont talk to her, dont call her, and haven't went out the few times she's picked up the SD's from their house. BM didn't call MIL/FIL when DH and BM were together for these things, nor since they have been separated. So what's up?
I think BM is trying to get MIL/FIL to pick SD's over DD. Well DD is only 14 months so no school stuff for her anyways. But BM has been withholding the SD's from DH, so why is she inviting the IL's to their school stuff.
MIL/FIL said they were going. I will have to see what happens. I'm sure MIL will call me, I won't ask mind you.
Just curious if you never had a relationship with your MIL/FIL during the marriage and right after, why would you all of a sudden start inviting them now, ummm 7 years after the divorce? Would you contact exMil/Fil after your divorce, if you didn't have a relationship with them during the marriage or directly after?
These BMs....so weird.