Am I wrong and just being bitter..Honesty please
Now BM from day one has been a over the top controlling bitch. She wants to call all the shots regarding SS14 and if DH does not "back her" there is hell to pay. The ONLY time BM wants DH involved is when she can't get SS14 to do anything then BM expects DH to drop EVERYTHING and help her.
Now that SS14 is 5'6 and 160 pounds of total spoiled rotten Entitled brat BM can hardly control him. SS14 has been skipping out of detention, refusing to meet with teachers for help and failing half of his classes. Since BM has coddled SS14 and let him get away with murder she can hardly control him now. BM expects DH to step in and basically fix this and DH feels he needs to for SS14 sake. Fix it not by Discipline but spending extra time with SS14(gag) trying to get him to Cooperate. Calling SS14 at night to go over his HW and having SS14 over more to work on HW with him. Now I'm all for Disciplining the little bastard but that just will never happen. What I see happening is DH Bribing SS14 with money to do his HW, calling SS14 every evening to "work on" HW and basically holding SS14 hand all the way.
Now I feel this will just make SS14 even more Entitled and lazy than he already is. I feel DH should just tell the teachers SS14 is with BM during the week and there is little he can do since we only get him on the weekend.
Honestly am I being just bitter as I'm ready to dig my heals in on this one