Am I Wrong?
So, I've been married for almost 2yrs. He has 3 children (the oldest 18 is not his but he basically raised him, the middle is his biological who is 16 & the youngest girl is 13). I've never really gotten along with the girl but I just let it be. 7mths ago after living a long time in doubting whether the girl was his or not he did a DNA test & it turned out it wasn't his. I've always told him that he can have whatever relationship he wants with this girl as it's his choice but he can't expect me to have a relationship. It was bad enough we didn't quite get along before but now knowing that it's not his then I feel I shouldn't have to take her attitude towards me. At first, he was ok with me going over to my parents house on the weekends that she was over, but now we are constantly arguing about me not interacting with her. He doesn't plan on telling her the truth which is fine with me as it's his choice. At the end of the day I feel like he shouldn't care about whether I have a relationship with her but focus on whatever relationship he wants to have with her. I tell him he can go out & have dates with her or go to the movies or go shopping but he shouldn't force me to do something I don't want to do. I have a 6yr old from a previous relationship & I personally like my alone time with him. I love to go to the movies with my son or go shopping or just hang out on the weekends that he doesn't go to his dad's house by myself with him. I don't understand why he finds a need to want to make me hang out with him & her. I personally don't think I'm being unreasonable with him as I'm not telling him to stop talking to her or anything like that, but I don't feel like I should be forced to hang out when I don't want to. Am I being wrong here?