Hi Guys I havent been on here for a while as i have had computer problems.
In first post (about 6 weeks ago), I explained my situation breifly. We are basically at the situation now where my partners ex cannot stop contact or use the kids as a weapon due to our day at court. She has however changed her tacktic by slagging daddy of to the girls at every possible moment and trying to make him an outcast.
We try our hardest not to make things worse by questioning the girls just try to explain things nicely without being horrible to there mother or to be honest we just ignore it.
One thing we cant ignore is the fact that the girls at her request call her boyfriend daddy. They love there mums partner as they do me and my partner does not want to start an argument or to tell them not to call him daddy as it may upset them if they go against there mum.
He would however like to explain the differance between him and there mums partner just so they no theres a differance as the way there mum talks to them about it you would think that he was there real father.
Me and my partner have a child so does there mum and her partner and the girls are 4 years old.(just a bit of background)
Can you help us ie any ideas about how to put it or has anyone else had the same problem.