ive been with my g/f for a year and she has 3 kids age 2,6 and 9.
im constantly feeling like she undermines me.
the kids have a good relationship with her ex and id never seek to be their parent, ive always said im their friend.
now we are discussing living together and every time i even try and break up an argument with the 6 and 9 year old (not in a discipline way but in an present adult way) she always interjects and i feel like a passtime babysitter.
has anyone else experienced this sort of thing or perhaps can help me articulatenit better?