3 SK's.... At the end of my rope please advise!
I'm over it!!
I have been trolling this site for a year. I love reading your stories, because for once I don't feel so alone.
I don't even have the energy after tonight's visit to get into too much detail
I have 3 step kids. Ss10 sd8 ss6 and we also have a son who just turned 4.
I have know. My DH since we were 15. He had his first at 16. And then 2 more. After a bad divorce, we ended up together. He is my best friend. We love each other and our son so much, and I do truly love all of our children.
We fought the courts for 4 YEARS to win overnight visits with the kids. They have been going on for about a year. And things are awful
All 3 children have new iPhones, and go to Disney once a month. Literally. And it's not just a weekend vacation, it's the whole 9. BM Lives with her parents and her dad is a doctor.... Yet we pay $600+/month in CS on my husbands $11/hour job. Yay Florida laws!
All of this wouldn't bother me if he didn't work weekends, and I am stuck with all 4 misbehaving kids all weekend on my only 2 days off. I don't think it's fair!! It's always where are we going, what are we doing today why can't we go out to eat. That's the expectation naturally because of how they are raised with BM.
The two oldest are failing in school, and BM doesn't seem to care. We attend conferences etc. oldest was recently suspended and marked "high risk" from his private school.
They have come over with pocket knives, BB guns etc hidden in their bags. They act loving yet aggressive with our DS at times. They actually scare me. They cry every night at bed time because they want to go home to their grandpa.
I've literally had every person close to this situation shake their heads and say they have never seen anything g like this before.
SS10 has PORN in his phone, and when brought up to BM she says this is NORMAL behavior, and she will deal with it, which never EVER happens. The 2 oldest have Facebook/twitter and constant unsupervised access to the internet on their iPhones and iPads. We have weekends "unplugged" here, which only causes strife.
My DH acts like a completely different person when they're here. Yelling and mean. I don't blame him because of their behavior, but it's starting to get in the way of our little family.
He has made comments about not knowing how to handle them, and doesn't know what to do.
Thanks for letting me vent, I am SO overwhelmed!!!