17 year old and the army
My step son wants to join the army, the kicker is he not beenin any sports since he was like 11 , has had no job, or volunteer work and isnt the best student .
He still makes axuses about why he doesnt want to work or volunteer. I have offered him ideas many many times. He is so lazy how in the worl does he thik he can get in >? He is so lazy, Stubborn, and such a procastinator did i say lazy lol ?
he comes on the weekend doesnt do anything but play games and eats. He really really should be studing and or working volunteer or a part time job at this age. its getting very old and im getting very angry at this point. My spouse said what can i do i do i see him 4 times month and i still want to see him and spend time with of course . I do see that point really do but when someone comes over and is lazy and feels like everything is handed to him it really bothers me. he said good willing he graduates in june he wont be coming over for sleep overs anymore he can visit when ever he wants of course but not all weekend sleep overs when he really really should be doing something . I dought that will happen we will see.