11yo stepson bed wetting really bad!!!!!
My stepson has been bed wetting since 6yo. His mum doesn’t care. She gives him this nasal spray that stops him from peeing if she needs to but otherwise he wears dry nights. He selectively wets. If he has friends over he won’t wet at all. He has no shame. He will sit in his soaked bed all day if we let him. He soaks through his dry night and through his bed. I can’t keep washing sheets. It’s also stinking his room out and the hallway near our rooms. He’s right across from the toilet. He has a night light. We have set alarms. He just turns them off and doesn’t care. We just purchased a new bed and gave him our queen bed because his other one that was only a year old was so damaged it needs to be dumped. His dad “talks” to him about getting up and that’s it. His mum said he will be fine and outgrow it. But I honestly don’t think the kid cares. Like he will just piss his pants because he’s scared he’s going to miss seeing something if he goes toilet. He has absolutely no idea about personal hygiene and will happily not brush his teeth for a week. I have tried so hard to be nice and teach him and remind him but it just goes through one ear and out the other and I’m sick of having to tell him and do all this laundry. Now this queen bed is going to get ruined and another bed will need to be dumped. Already dumped 3 in the last 7 years because they were so badly damaged and the vax couldn’t even remove the stench.