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we had a rare sleep over this past weekend

Calypso1977's picture

SD14 slept over this past saturday night.

she is gross!

didnt shower saturday or sunday, but at least that means she didnt dirty the bathroom.

she went to bed with some sort of blue sugary candy that she either spilled or drooled in her sleep as there was a huge blue stain on the sheets. they are an older set, but still, i want them unstained!

sunday morning she was flopped in my living room with her stupid phone, waiting for her breakfast to be prepared and served.

i avoided home and hit the gym and did errands as much as possible. fiance at least kept her with him in the den so i could have my living room to myself!

i have to count my blessings that sleep overs are rare (even tho they should be 2x per month!).

Calypso1977's picture

haha i know, right? we wont see her for a month now due to our vacation and her vacation with her mom. then its birthday and holiday gift campaign season when she is sticky sweet nice to get whatever $300 gift she has picked out for her father to buy her!

over step's picture

Sd15 takes regular showers but to get her to brush the hair on the back of her head is impossible. I don't understand that cuz she is so very vain. She has makeup stains on the side of her box springs on her bed where she wipes foundation, eyeliner, and whatever else off her fingers. Not to mention the makeup stains and food crumbs all over her sheets. It's up to dh to wash her sheets but it could be several months before he thinks about doing. She is only here a few days month but if it were me I'd wash them every visit or at least once a month. She doesn't even know the difference. Gross!

Calypso1977's picture

14, 2 months shy of 15. a HS Freshman this fall.

her parents do EVERYTHING for her. her father still has to tell her what to bring when she comes for visits. no joke.

WalkOnBy's picture

What IS it with skids and bad hygiene? SS17 takes a shower every three days or so. The stench is just unbelievable! BabyVoice will only shower if told to do it. Karate Kid (SS15) is the exception - he takes multiple showers a day.

My kids are also skids - they have normal hygiene, so I have no idea why my skids are so icky when it comes to personal hygiene.

Ewwww.
Ick.
So gross.

Andie91801's picture

What the deal with them being so disgusting.When SD was here she didn't shower or get out of bed. DH basically had to yell to get her to move her lazy ass. When she did she left all the disgusting things all over the bathroom. Told DH to tell her to pick them up. Yuck!!! Thanks goodness I don't have to deal with her any more. SS didn't brush his teeth and now they're all rotten and he needs crowns about 20 of them and he has gf. DH said when he was at their place fixing SS computer he saw female underwear on kitchen counter and he almost threw up...disgusting.

Shieldmaiden's picture

I haven't washed the teen SD's sheets for 2 years. I decided if they wanted to sleep on dirty sheets rather than wash them, they could. They used to whine when I would wash their sheets and fold them up on the bed so THEY had to make the bed. Oh no! DH to the rescue! Don't let them break a sweat!  I was horrified to find out when we moved that those same sheets were still on their beds. They just pulled them off in a wad and left them in the garage and would have slept without sheets had DH not stepped in and done everything for them. GROSS *ACK* GAG!!  A week later they might have whined "Daddy? Where did you put my sheets?" which is code for "Go fetch them and make my bed up, chambermaid." Its funny that the the younger one is a germaphobe yet she will sleep in filthy sheets. But if you make her a nice dinner she will demand of you as she holds the fork aloft "DID YOU WASH YOUR HANDS BEFORE TOUCHING MY FOOD?" 

 

Cover1W's picture

OSD went at least 6 months with unwashed sheets, they were only washed prior to this because, of course, DH washed them for her. By the time we stripped her room after it was clear she wasn't coming back I had to throw the sheets away. They were originally light pink but had turned gray and shiny from all the skin/sweat/oils. I threw away the pillows too. I saved the comforter luckily. But the grossest thing was finding her used underwear - I cannot explain the filth and it turned my stomach - I made DH clean up her underwear and socks. Horrifying.

I always asked the SDs if they washed their hands before dinner AND I would smell them!  LOL. I still have to remind YSD, who is pretty clean over all, to wash her hands before she starts making food or helping with baking or cooking things that we're going to eat. (rare but it does happen)

Dogmom1321's picture

I stopped doing laundry for SD12 a couple of years ago when she claimed she "didn't know how" to use a hanger. So all of her freshly washed clothes would be stuffed under her bed...

Anyway, fast forward 4ish years...SD sleeps with crumbs and food bits all in her bed. There is no telling how long it's been since they have been washed. Her "showers" consist of using entire bottles of body spray and not shampooing her hair. Like... instead of putting so much effort into covering UP the smell... just do the same work to clean and get RID of it. I will never understand the laziness to the point of being a biohazard *gag*