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Backlash of backing off the skid!!

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Please read my other post about putting the metaphorical wheelbarrow down!!!!!

Well folks! He has had less than a week of full time pushing her about with all of her shite and guess what? They have decided that I am the bad guy and they are siding together!!!!
She was whimpering in her room telling him how awful I was for this and that and he was feeling sorry for her as the she was crying. I was in the next room getting our little boy to sleep.
I walked in told them both what I thought of them, their sad lies and flung them the whole lorry load of truths.
I have sat and told him the lot!
He is at a loss and sorry I am so bitter ROFLMAO!!!!
I cooked a meal and he has gone to bed without eating it!

I have 2 rules, my home is my business and the brat will do as she is told.
Take the piss out of my family, she gets told!

She pretended that my step father hadn't put £50 in her card last year! He was kind enough to do the same this year!
I won't let her have the money until she tells the truth about hiding the money last year!!!
So her dad has gone to bed, without eating as I had a go at her!
I feel so pissed off, he must think its okay to let the little brat keep taking from people!

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Thank you! I am totally onto this now! If she thought for one moment she was ever going to get one over myself or my family she really is going to have a sharp and fast come down.
I will not be doing her meals, I will not sit at the same table as her and watch her gross manners. Neither will I sit in the same room as her unless she learns to control the bull shit that comes out of her mouth. I will ask her to leave the room.
I will not do her laundry or discipline her. I have had it!!!
Trouble is none of this will bother her, nothing does!
She knows her father will side with her and as he did last night, he told me I was wrong and this situation is my fault ROFLMAO!!
I pointed the finger right back at him and told him to go and shove his blame in the correct direction. Nice try mate!
He is panicking as he knows he has let this situation happen as for as long I was doing all that shit for his kid he was off the hook, those days are over!!!!!
How awful that one 12 year old child can cause this much unrest!!

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That is what skids do. They cause unrest. That is why us "mean bitches" don't like skids.

hippiegirl's picture

That is what skids do. They cause unrest. That is why us "mean bitches" don't like skids.

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Well it seems he has worked out that I am not the bad guy.
He has told her she has got 6 weeks to pull herself together or she can go and live with her mother! We will see! I have told him exactly my plan of not dealing with her, and all the baggage that comes with him. Including his nutty mother!!! 2015 is going to be a very cleansing year for me! Thank you for your supportive replies Smile