Just need to let it out
Hi all. Firstly I’ve posted here about twice, don’t really need to post, you guys help me a lot with your posts, so thank you!
My heart is so torn apart, SS4 is a little devil and if you don’t keep him in line, he will make and break as he pleases. So now, I’m the only one in the household that gives discipline, I’m the only one who will teach manners. This weekend we went to visit the IL’s, so you’ll understand if I say that its not nice to have a “fight” with a child (that’s not even yours) because of his attitude or manners, in front of his grandparents. I was told that I’m too hard on the child and I need to back off. So I did, what happens, he throws things around if he doesn’t get is way, he screams if he wants something and you’re not quick enough to give it to him and ask DH to PLEASE talk to his child, then he goes all ape sh*t crazy on me.
I’m so tired of fighting with DH and I’m so tired of everyone interfering. The child lives permanently by us, he sees his mother maybe once in 3 months so basically I’m the “mommy”. I know what to do but I just don’t want to fight anymore.