Are you turned off with DH when BM and steps come around too?
Eh, because I am. Bleh. It used to not affect me as badly but lately, for the last few weeks, it has. Everytime BM raises her beastly head, I'm turned off. Surely DH must notice this after years and years of almost daily lovemaking? He can't be that blind, can he? BM started her email, tag gameplaying a few days ago and every since, I have been faking going to bed early. I'm like, "Alright sweetie, I'm bushed. Stay up and play with your music downloads, or whatever. " (I don't quite phrase it that way).
I don't understand. I am normally turned on to him but, not anymore when his ex-wife crap starts up. I think that deep inside of my psyche, I do not feel 101% secure with him. I feel like a polygamist or something when this starts up. IF he would keep her on a leash and quit turning OUR home upside down, everytime she decides she wants some "time." (welcome to the world of being a parent).
I also feel that my DH SHOULD take care of THEIR son. I have gotten to the point of feeling like a single mom myself. It doesn't even bother me honestly.
What do you guys think?