Normal or hurtful?
My husband (Sam)has been divorced 8 years. That marriage resulted in a son who's 9 (Jake). I also have a son who's 12 (Matt) and then together we have a 4 year old daughter(Sarah). My husbands ex wife (Jess) is remarried with a step son (Nate) who's 7 and a new baby(Lucy). Jess has daily contact with my inlaws. Recently she visited our city and brought along her husband step son new daughter as well as new mother in law and sister in law. They all stayed with my mother in law! After a few days the group relocated to my father in laws house. She then had family pictures done professionally. Some with herself her husband and 3 kids, and some with my in laws! None with her new mother in law. My in laws do not have pictures of my kids on display. Not even my daughter who is their biological grand child. But they have pics of the ex wifes new family. They openly claim her new daughter and step son as there grandkids. Is this normal? Please share opinions with me.