I was a member for years, but I deleted my old account and started anew. My step-situation has changed so much and I wanted a fresh start. From full time 24-7 SM to barely any contact. After the SS left I went to therapy to deal with all that transpired. I was diagnosed with PTSD (I prefer to call it PTSSD)... but I am rebuilding and I remembered fondly how much this site helped me. I hope I can offer the same to others.