I don't know how to explain this, but I am so irritated and I don't understand how this seems to always fall when my husband and I always plan something.
My husband and I had an unplanned pregnancy in 2013, and had a miscarriage at 13 weeks March 2013. Since then, we have been trying, and trying, and trying. I had to get D&C performed because my body didn't recognize I had a miscarriage. Though, I have read everywhere it seems like that D&C's can throw your horomoones off balance. So a month ago, we decided that we would try to see a doctor to see if they could test to see where my levels are.
My doctors appointment is Wednesday. He and I planned to go together. Now, his exwife asked him to watch their youngest while she goes on 2 interviews because shes moving back down closer since my husband threatened to take her to court because she moved without anyone's permission and took the kids, refuses to give an address.. etc.. (another story)
But everytime, My husband and I plan something in advance, its like she calls and ruins our date. OR gets the kids involved. This means a whole lot to me, and now he isn't going to watch their youngest. Yes, his youngest... She is 2 yrs old. Questions: How is it he has a 2 yr old?
Well to answer the question, he left for deployment and she cheated on him, sent him a dear John letter n had divorce papers when he came back. He didn't know the youngest was his until she was 16 months old and he did a DNA test to prove. My husband and I have been married 1 yr and almost together for 2 years. I say 2 years because its easier. I rekindled with him when he was divorced.
I don't know why I get so angry or irritated. But every time him and I plan something special, its like perfect timing to ruin our time. Its not posted on any social media.
He won't decline to watch her. I already asked.
So now I am debating on cancelling it and saying screw it... (thats how irritated I am