THIS is what we get when DH stands up for ME.
SM31 is not my wife nor do I have ANY obligation towards her. As I have stated before SHE is the one that came into a situation where kids were established from a long term marriage. If anyone should be understanding or trying to keep things civil it is HER. I don't care nor need to know what your support is towards her involvement. As she clearly made it known when she helps out it is her helping you with YOUR responsibility.
After being married to you for so many years I expected her to care for our kids, especially since SD & SS help so much with HER kids! I have no respect for SM31 because she did not earn it. And frankly I am sick of being told any damn thing about her and her crybaby ways. You and I were married, we loved each other once and made two children together, exactly the same as what you have now. We are divorced and just because you are re-married does not mean our relationship has to include her. There is nothing romantic between us, we share a common goal of a great relationship for our kids and I feel SM31 needs to GROW UP and not only respect that but honor that because she owes that to our children! I'd like to know if you divorced her and some other woman was step mother to her two children how supportive she would be to cater to that womans feelings over her own childrens!!!!!!?????
I will fix the frigging calendar. And to be honest SD was not feeling well this morning when I left for work. If she is sick and prefers to be in her own room in the comfort of her own bed then I may not bring them til tomorrow.
DH's name, I respect you and always will, and i hope you feel the same. I understand the pressure she puts on you so I have no problem with you, but I do not have to yield to her or anyone, ever.
I will drop them late evening, but as I said before if she is not well i will just wait til tomorrow. As her father I am sure you can understand.
This is an Email from BM because:
1. DH said he supports my involvement
2. Asked her to change back the calendar after she underhandedly tried to take away one of his days.