Been married for almost 2 yrs. My husband came into the marriage with 3 boys 1 girl, I have 1 girl 1 boys. they range between 9-18.. His two oldest boys have horrible anger issues toward their father, which affects the rest of us. When they come on the wknds its a living hell. whats worse is that most wknds they are there my husband has to work, so its just me. I have told him that the 2 older boys can no longer come if he is not there. they become violent towards the other 4 kids. they curse, talk inappropriately and I could go on and on. I love his two youngest kids with all my heart and part of the reason I stay is for them. I dont know what to do. My husband does NOTHING to help this situation, Him and his X have let this behavior go on for yrs and yrs, and now she is starting to have problems with them and her boyfriend and wants to do something, yet for the last 3 yrs she has let them act this way, she even told me she thought it was funny and she got a kick out of them making me cry.