Mentally Disturbed SD14
DH called out SD14 yesterday for her out right MEAN and DISTURBING comment about my dog.
I heard my dog throw up in the other room and yelled, "Oh no, was that ____? Did she just throw up?"
SD14, who is in the den, proceeds to say to my dog "____ you should go outside in the thunderstorm and sacrafice yourself."
DH: "Well, THAT'S mean. Why would you say a thing like that???"
SD: "Geez, I was just joking." *eyeroll*
DH: "Don't roll your eyes at me."
SD: "What, she's just a dog."
She is a complete PSYCHO. I have posted on here before about SD14 making demented comments. A lot of responses are "oh it's dark humor." No, I think she is just downright MEAN and has zero empathy for others.
Glad DH saw her TRUE personality for himself!
This is the exact reason why I refuse to let her be alone with my son or my dog.
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SD14 would say things like
SD14 would say things like "___, no one likes you" to my cat, and then say "We should get rid of her and get a new cat". I LOVE my cat and SD knows that. Just because my cat doesn't give 1 single F*ck about SD and pays zero attention to her.... but do not tell me we should get rid of her. I've told her before you don't just get rid of pets and she continues to say things like this. It realllly pisses me off. SD used to be a nice kid but she has also become really mean and I honestly just don't like her anymore.
What is wrong with these girls? It's not funny or dark humor.
She 100% uses "just joking"
She 100% uses "just joking" to cover up her evil comments. There's always some truth to it.
Totally agree. I don't even think she's a decent human being anymore.
My SD went through a phase
My SD went through a phase like that too. So edgy. She stopped pretty quick when we didn't give her any response or attention from it. However she continued to act that way around her peers and become a huge mean girl. She could dish it out but couldn't take it. When she said nasty things she was "just joking" but when people did the same to her they were "rude" or "bullies".
That's 100% my OSD too!
That's 100% my OSD too!
Absolutely @ not letting her
Absolutely @ not letting her be with your child or dog alone. I'd be tempted to put cameras around the house as well. (Have you spoken to your DH about this girl seeing a counselor?)
We had a similar situation at our house with (how embarrassing) my mid-30s SS being jealous of our dog. He smacked him once and I got after him about that. When DH had a health scare last year, SS said, "If he [the dog] jumped on you, I was going to kill the MFer." The behavior didn't stop there. I had to tell SS to stop chasing the dog out of the kitchen; the dog is allowed in the kitchen. This is his house, too. So, then, the demented F started to do this "fake play" thing with the dog which was annoying ... it was clearly intended to intimidate. I had to stop that, too, and spoke with DH in his drugged healing state about saying something about the behavior. It's yet another reason SS is not allowed to ever step foot in this house again. EVER.
The lack of empathy thing (sociopath) is very creepy. I've seen it myself.
Same here
The Animal Torturer SD, was lying and stealing in an accomplished manner by age 8. She was shooting toads in the eyes with a bb gun at that age as well
Huge mean girl complex. Chef described her as an "animal lover." Yeah, no!
SD has mental illness
Someone, not you, must take charge of SD mental health treatment. I know it's hard and you are venting. But mental illness makes people do nutty things. One who hope it's the illness not SD. SD should of have a full mental work up, with an MD. Should have her illness known, a treatment plan made up. And DH must make her follow it, drugs, sections , what ever. With yearly MD Visuts to make changes if needed in SD treatment plan.
Its hard work, It's easier to stick one's head in the sand and say what can I do. But that not helping SD. Meanwhile we are here so vent away
If I had been your DH.....
"Here is the metal framed umbrella. Now, get your idiot ass out into that lightening storm and stay out there until you puke. I will be watching at the door and you will not be coming back in until you shove your finger down your throat and I see your shoes come out of your mouth from the heaving. GO NOW!"