Worried about BM racist comments
So basically this interaction has held on my head for a few weeks now... it happened I believe 3 weeks ago.
I always go with DH to pick up the boys because the one time I didn't I was basically told she started screaming at him that he doesn't pay enough in child support and that his kids hate me and idk... I got the story from a 12 year old. But I started going every time because when she is infront of me for some reason she doesn't even talk to him more than a few words.
This time the older (12M) seemed upset about something and here comes BM stomping up to the car.
She said with anger (ss12) got in another fight at school
My innocent husband calmly asked what happened... poor guy...
without warning she started screaming about some girl, but kept referring to her with the N word... multiple times... very loud... in the parking lot of her own work.
SS6 tried to come to me and talk to me about something he did in school seemingly trying to separate himself from the situation and she suddenly screamed at him and I still after trying to recall the events have no idea why she yelled at him...
after (not exaggerating) 3 minutes of her yelling about some poor girl and using every racist term in both English and broken Spanish my husband looked at ss12 and just calmly said "I will talk to him about it" and she angrily walked away.
At this point I noticed a black woman walk by with her very small girl.. looking like she was barely old enough to walk... my heart hurt as I couldn't even open my mouth as I was so shocked..
I don't know if it matters but BM is some sort of Hispanic... I think.. but she looks very white... yelling horrible words into a car with two children and a very dark skinned Hispanic man.
The worst part of this is after we drove away not even understanding what happened, SS12 said he has no idea what she was talking about and that he got in a fight with some boy that called him names... basically the fight was over he hit him and the kid backed off (again don't know how true it is because it's coming from a 12 year old)
he said the girl his mom was talking about was his friend and she just messaged his mom on instagram warning her that she was worried that SS was going to get into a fight.
can you believe that ever after this the kid told me today that he would rather be at his moms house than mine