SS moved out/ran away to noncustodial parent
You can take a quick look at my previous posts if you want to get familiar with my situation
Today all of a sudden DH found out that his son 14 wants to live with his mom. BM disappeared when they were 5, DH got the full custody and now they are 14 twins and one just ran away didnt come back home and called his dad to ask for his documents and that he will live with his mom now. DH is heartbroken. I feel his pain and have no idea how to support him. Although this is unlawful, she wants to take him live in another country with her and DH says he will let him go or the son will hate hIm if he just take him away against his will. He lied for a very long time to him and everyone around, he was seeing his mom for a long time now and just ran away one day. Crazy. She has no custody, so the teen can't live with her, but he asked his dad to let him go if he lives him. BM brainwashed him probably, he didn't say goodbye to his grandpa, to his twin brother, to his dad, no one.
Now I'm concerned about BM plotting something against me and my husband. She is psychological unstable. It's a crazy situation. DH loves his sons very much, he raised them and now one just left, he is not himself rn and it's ultimately affecting me and our relationship. I'm trying to be there for him.