Am I just taking everything the wrong way
SS has another out of town game for travel baseball. SO and BM where supposed to take turns going out of town so it should be BMs turn but she can't because SD has a homecoming dance. As you know SO does nothing with SD anymore but immerses himself in SS sports. And not that I will be here but we have a vacation planned In November. SO has a dog that he got 9 years ago before him and BM divorced. So part of the deal was she kept the dog when he had to go out of town for work and it is also his kids so it is their responsibility also ,ha. SD wanted nothing to do with the dog the last time we had to take SS out of town for a game. SO and I agreed that we would get a dog sitter. I have it all arranged. I said never again will we ask when it is for our vacations.He said when BM told him (yes of course they had to communicate yet again)that he would have to take SS again he said well then can you watch the dog for one night so me and him can leave a night earlier. She said who is taking care of the dog SD is going to be upset she isn't watching her. My arze it is always a point of contention . I simply said no we will leave on our scheduled day and the dog sitter I hired will watch her, done. I literally said done, meaning no more discussion. But you now all know my SO He said but we could go a day sooner. I said no we discussed this and said no more watching the dog when it is for us. He said but why not since I am doing her out of town turn. I said well maybe you shouldn't be. Maybe you should be home for SD to see her go to homecoming. I said my dad always helped me with dresses etc. it does not have to be a mother thing. He said I was snippy and he was just trying to make me happy by giving me another night in vacation.