Lucky SD has another good communicative teacher
Surprise, surprise, SD's picture day at school is only a couple days away and BM did not share any information for DH to purchase SD's school pictures. DH politely asked BM if she could share the information when she receives it for picture day following his share of the instructions and codes to set up the parent portal for SD that was emailed from SD's teacher, but that BM had mailed to her. We know from the teacher BM has had the information for over a week now, so either she is not going to share it at all or she is going to share it last minute on picture day.
We have been lucky that SD has another good communicative teacher that tries to involve DH as she can. Yesterday SD's teacher emailed DH the agenda for next week in her classroom. DH responded by thanking her, asking her if she had any information for picture day, and also asking if report cards only went home or were also electronic through the portal. Within an hour, SD's teacher scanned over a copy of the picture day envelope and told us report cards are electronic. Thank goodness for the report cards being electronic because if not we would never see SD's report card.
All last year we uploaded the digital copy of the report cards to the CO app since BM did not share the first one even though DH politely asked if she could upload it when SD brought it home. Found out weeks later that it is because SD was apparently throwing her school papers in BM's trunk and/or shoving them in a drawer in her room.
Should DH continue to upload report cards to establish the pattern of BM never sharing any educational information but that DH from a distance continually shares the information despite receiving it days or weeks after BM does and he has to request it through the school?