Staying in marriage
I wonder why do I stay in my marriage even though my 5 step boys resent me because of their father not in the picture, no child support. My doesnt i feel push for it even though she says she does. They dad don't do anything and they get mad at me for not doing enough for them as what they see. Like getting them stuff they want not need. From the oldest 16 to the youngest 10. My daughter 7 they get jealous of if she got new things or extra food. They start getting on her for petty stuff. And my wife, I feel doesn't be consistent with disciplining them. She will talk to them here and there then it gets out of control again with the step boys but not enough form of discipline like take games away for a week or no tv such. I have mentioned to her about what we can do for discipline for ways to help them but she doesn't listen to what I have to say. So my question is the one above and what and ways I can disengage from all this? Any pointer tips can help thank you.