Skids and college and feeling blue
So how many of you on her have skids that will be leaving for college in a couple weeks? If so I am very very jealous!
Not only is SD not going away, as many of you know she isn't even doing CC. Just a 2 night a week course to learn Dental Assisting.
What is starting to make me blue is that her two local female friends wll be leaving in two weeks to go away to college (one will be 5 hours away so will rarely even be coming home), and her boyfriend will be starting night school at a local CC, working 40 hours AND playing baseball. And I found out that her 3rd friend that lives a few hours away will be going to a State University that is less then 2 hours from here. It one that I had suggsted SD look into. It would have bene perfect becuase they could have roomed together.
What does all this mean? That on the wekends she is here she will be spending a lot more time just sitting around doing nothing! These past two months have been awesome becuase she is gone a lot with these friends and her boyfriend. The less she is here the better DH and I have been.
Oh and DH has had "talks" with her about getting a job this summer (at least 2 that I know of) Hmmmm its August. How'd those "talks" go with her?
I try to not resent her and blame DH and BM for how she turned out, but at this point in her life, I'm sorry, I blame her for being lazy, boring and wanting to do the bare minimum. (Oh and DH just blames BM for everything. He loves to say " It doesnt matter what I say. SD will only listen to BM")