He’s THAT way with his whole family
Not just his children. This doormat mentality. And when I confront him on it I am the bad guy.
so DH's nephew and his children visited for three nights. No problem. Until this morning. I went to change the sheets in guest room and DH said they had been washed already 3 times. Hmmm. So one of nephews kids peed in the bed EVERY night they were here! Smoke was pouring out of my ears. Why was the child allowed to sleep in that bed 2 more nights after he peed??? My DH answer oh we thought there was a waterproof pad on it. DID YOU CHECK???? Long story short huge pee stain and it is memory form mattress. No topping and super absorbent.
my DH reaction is classic him. He is angry at me. Oh it's no big deal. I just can't fathom going to anyones home and allowing my child to essentially destroy their guest queen sized mattress. He will never take my side. And never confronts his family. The arrogance of his nephew.
my only consolation is that is the guest room for HIS children on the rare times thry are here. Lol.