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What must she be thinking

Newimprvmodel's picture

Good weekend. One of my sons was visiting and is about to get engaged. We went out to dinner and he was discussing the ring. DH has known him for the past 15 yrs and he only met DH's daughters ONCE about 12 years ago. The girls refused to attend our wedding and never spend any holidays. 
DH has phone relationships with his daughters. I think for their need not his. So one called today and DH went on ad infinitum about my son's visit upcoming engagement, fiancée etc etc. 

I was listening to it thinking what must his daughter be thinking?  Painful?  To share her father with strangers to her  

life is so short   I think maybe we could all

have had nice relationships.  It's way too late  

 

 

TheAccidentalSM's picture

How are you doing with the other drama with your mom and brother?  

I have to confess, I have a telephone relationship with my father.  Its sad but it is what it is.  He's really hard to deal with and we haven't lived in the same country since I was 16 (and that was a really long time ago).

Newimprvmodel's picture

Where do I begin?

Police called 3 times last weekend in a 24 hour period.  For fake wellness checks. 
icing on the cake was " my brother" calling my place of employment and telling them I was "holding our father hostage."

my so called mother leaving harrassing messages she was calling the licensing board to take my professional license because I am a thief. 
yes I did hear that from blocked messages.  
my father has turned into a royal peach. He was depressed all my life and has decided to go out the sane way. My life has become a shitshow. Here my kids are grown. And now I care for an elderly man who tells me everyday I do half assed jobs. 
my mother just called my house using another number.  Tells my father I am stealing all the money from the sale of their house snd he asks me if it is true?

the stress is killing me. 
I sound crazy but all this is true. 

Harry's picture

Else to talk about with DD.  Be happy you don't have to be dealing with this kid.  Not having to be cooking for her, having her invade your home.  So what.  DH has nothing to talk with his DD. So the up coming wedding was all he could think of.