Is this normal?
So I seem to be the only one who finds that husbands ex always calls his parents/sits and chats / etc.
It is not our weekend to have his child but his ex says oh you can have him Saturday for the holiday. Husbands says he may have to woek and she then goes and calls his parents and says I can drop him off and you can have him all day. AND HIS PARENTS Agree!!! She always does this and his parents are always there for her like husband and ex never got divorced. It's been 10.5 years and still the same.
what is this?!? I am at such a loss. We always have to drop things for her or wait around for her - not sure I can deal anymore. And the step son is a total brat to me and so disrespectful to me and my two children and our child we have together- he is 13- acts just like his mom and I tell husband he acts like this becosse he sees you all allow this!
I am never part of decisions but always one that has to take care of him as husband works lots and o always says he needs him time. I don't even want to do holidays anymore becosse od this kid.
I can't recall last time husband did a holiday with my side of family.
and for holidays when he drops off his son he will go insides and talk with all her family.
I find this all so insane. Am I wrong?!