Stepson is a selfish ahole
There, I said it.
Just now I learned that SS never even attemped to close our front gate when he goes to school, because it's easier for him not to. He just walked out, someone will fix this anyway. Our front gate sometimes is hard to completely secure from the outside. And if not secured, sometimes the wind blows it open. I've always though it was just the wind. And today i saw, it was SS who just didn't even bother to close it. If we don't have a automatic-lock front door, that door won't get locked either. (I only know because it has already happened and that's why we changed our lock) Not to mention when he used to park his bike in the garage he just left the garage door open as well. (Because, someone from us will close it, as he told us)
I know this is a such small thing on its own, and we lived in a fairly safe neighborhood. It is the attitude of everything is about him and only him that pisses me off. Because shit like this ( and leaving trash on the floor, on the table, everywhere he goes) happens on daily occurrence. He never does ANYTHING for anyone but himself, but he expects everyone to help him.
Anything that inconveniences him a bit he will freaking whine about it. Oh but he has no problem of calling us to send him one pill to school in the middle of our workday. He just expects that to be done and feels good about his "problem solving skills" (which to be honest is none). He asked his dad to make a fancy meal. Took DH 4 hours, not only did SS not eating a lot and ended up throwing away most of it. When SS was asked to help to prepare the meal, he had the balls to say "maybe not." (But DH made him help) Many times I just leave the room so I don't hear those insanely selfish crap.
SS has another homework of "preparing a healthy desert for family," that WE all are going to do while him watch.
DH is on business trip this whole week and I have to deal with SS all by myself. Such a pleasure.
I wish I have the choice of not living with SS. Right now I really hate him. (And that's after 4 days of dealing with his rude ass without calling DH to deal with him. I'm just really about to explode.)