I asked for advice on another forum and everyone attacked me
I have asked for advice here regarding skids but sometimes I want to also ask parents to see their point of view. It's different to ask regular parents and to ask stepparents.
So I went to a normal parent forum and all I got from people with or without kids was: "the children come first. It's none of your business what he does with his kids". I even had someone saying: "you're just a partner that comes and goes". I realized that nobody will understand a stepparent's point of view ever!
Is it normal to feel attacked like this by other people who are not stepparents like us??? Has it happened to you???