SD getting married
Dear step moms and dads
I need some advice specifically from those dealing with difficult adult step children. I have been married for 6 years and my adult step children have been disrespectful and passive aggressive since the beginning. Things escalated in the last few months when they became overtly mean and hateful, they pick up fights with their father and go on and off with him to punish him for wanting us to stay together. My husband acknowledged all of this and he finally sees them for who they are. He is astonished by their selfishness and doesn't know what to do.
Now his oldest is getting married and I am not invited. I find this very humiliating and hurtful specially because I did nothing to deserve this. I don't like the idea that my husband will be there without me, but I also hate the idea that he would miss her wedding. So I told him he can attend the wedding and that he doesn't have to worry about me, I did not want to be a part of this childish situation and honestly I don't want to be in a toxic surroundings and with people who are full of resent
Now I doubt what I did, did I took the right decision? Is this the right thing to do in such situations? I don't think there would be a chance for us to have a relationship in the future, but how would that affect my marriage? Is there people here who had similar challenges and how did you deal with them ?