Asking 1000000 times
DH- "I got you some breakfast sandwiches. They're in the freezer if you want one."
SS- (full sprint to the freezer. opens the door. looks but can't find them).
DH- (jumps up to assist him, digs out the box).
SS- (looks at the box and says, "those don't have sausage. They have ham and I don't eat ham", then proceeds to sit on the couch and say nothing looking completely dejected).
DH- "I went to the store and they didn't have the sausage ones. I got you the ham ones because that's what they had. We also have toaster strudles, muffins, cereal, etc. etc. etc." (the list goes on and on).
SS- sits on the couch and doesn't say a word.
CLEARLY DH is a failure. Its sad watching DH fall all over himself to please this kid and then personalize it when SS acts like an entitled s***. Its pathetic to watch.
I said nothing and just left for work... how can I get (or is it even possible for me to get) DH to see that his son is acting entitled and not blame himself for his son's lack of regard for DH's efforts? More importantly- how can I get DH to get off of SS's ass? It feels pathetic...