So BM and her very long term fiancé are now getting married. This fall. They got together less than a year after me and DH moved in together. Congratulations to them finally taking that step I'm happy for them as happy as I can be for BM after all she's put us through anyways. My personal irritant is with BM even just last year telling SD that she didn't want to marry her fiancé anyways (she seemed irritated it was taking so long) and that if she wanted to marry she'd have married my DH long ago. Mind you they were never serious. No engagement. No proposal. No nothing. She even told SD she had a dress fitted and paid for. The time period when he was with someone else even. It's all so immature and annoying and sad. She makes up soooooo much stuff and is so insecure. Now that she's finally getting married I want to make petty comments but I wouldn't and won't. I just hate the lies and immaturity with SD. She lies to SD about everything all the time. Last summer right after we told SD about how DH best friend immediately said DH would marry me someday when we met eachother she told SD that he was spending time with her on weekends at his vacation property up north. And selling her a truck. Neither of which he has. And isn't true. And said that he's SD God father. It's so embarrassing. Same with us playing guitar. We learned when I was pregnant and she said the following visit that her dad and mom learned guitar pregnant with her together. Her mom even has a guitar (apparently proof she can play) but it has had no strings for years she admits. It's all so odd. If we didn't know BM so well we'd assume SD was making these stories up. It's outlandish. And I'm just annoyed. SD even said her moms fiancé wanted to leave her but is afraid he won't be able to see his son like she's done to both her daughters dads. And every time BM yells at me for something stupid I want to say these things to her. But I won't. I am just venting here I guess. No advice can probably help here with this. Give it if you have any. I just hope her drama doesn't affect us once SD is an adult. But reading here I feel less hopeful for that.