Step son still on his moms tit.
Does anyone else's stepchild make their blood pressure go up? I sit in my car before going inside my house on the weekends the SC is at my home. Before I met him, everyone I knew would just brag about this child. I'm wondering now if those people were paid to tell me things like that. My stepson is almost 9. The 4 years i've been with my husband, where the SC is at our home, every other weekend...I have yet to have ONE weekend where he doesn't cry like he is still 2 years old. This past weekend he started crying because he forgot to bring a shirt to sleep in from his moms house. HIS WHOLE CLOSET IS FULL OF SHIRTS! It's getting old. My own 7 year old daughter does not cry as much as he does. My daughters are starting to express that they don't want to come to my house because the stepson is there. Dinner time rolls around and he is absoletly clueless on how to fix his plate. What to do with the dishes after...when we just went over it yet again the weekend before. He never likes anything I cook. I've very nicely asked him what his mom cooks him for breakfast, lunch and dinner....and guess what! HE STARTS CRYING! He will run all the hot water out to take a bath for maybe 2 minutes and then drain the water right back out. While he's doing that we have to tell him about 5 times to stop signing at the top of his lungs.His mom keeps signing him up for sports, which takes up the majority of Saturdays and Sundays when he is at my house. Between practices and games and tournamets etc. My husband is never home on the weekends now because of that. It's starting to cause issues in the marital life. All the chores and to do stuff is left for me and my daughters to do, while my husband and step son are gone off to the ball field. Its not until here in the last month or 2 that my husband has even shown any interest in going to these games. ALl family events (birthdays, dinners etc) are not attended to by my husband and step son because of sports. My grandpa's 80th birthday, that I informed my husband of MONTHS in advance. I even put it in his phone. Asked him to make sure he was there because it was important...well, nor he or the step son came because of ball practice.