Together for over 6 years and asked about my family for the first time.
Saw grown skids last weekend. A couple of things occurred that made me kinda just shake my head in amusement. After being with their dad over six years it occurred to one of them how little they know about me in fact how little all of them know about me and I was asked about my family of origin and if we are "close" I have 6 siblings and nope we aren't, any other questions?
Then I was told I should plan a family camping trip, because the last one I hosted 3 years ago was "so much fun" it was only fun for everyone BUT me because I was the camp slave, literally I did everything, from food to every damn thing including games, these are adults with their own children and they literally left their children's entertainment up to me. I wanted to give the same answer "nope we aren't close" what makes that so amusing is I overheard the conversation amongst themselves "we should go camping" and someone said "we should get Zen to plan one" then I was included in the conversation. hahahahaha good luck with that one kiddos. Never again.