In-law issues. Help! Open to Opinions!
Help! In-law issues.
So I’m not sure if I’m the only one who experiences this but I need help understanding if I’m just offended or are my in-laws the real issue. So to sum things up. I’m with a guy that has a 5 year old child and we had our first child together last year. I’ve noticed ever since I got preggers I was kind of “old news” assuming because his entire family and him went thru a pregnancy and all the “firsts” Fun. Well let me get to present day! First things first my boyfriends baby mama and family are super buddy buddy. Which is gross to me. But anyways lol I’ve noticed my “mother-in-law” only calls or even checks up on us when his older daughter is with us. She even disrespected me to the point to send my daughters hospital pictures to his ex-baby mama the day we were coming home from the hospital. Anyways Like SHE LITERALLY only asks me about my baby if she’s going to end up seeing my stepdaughter that day. Like it’s gotten to the point in which she LITERALLY only invites us over or out if my stepdaughter is with us. Today she actually slipped up She had invited us over to her house. But things changed when she literally said “oops I thought today was Thursday(the day he gets his daughter) I thought you got *daughters name* nevermind y’all don’t have to come I’m going to get my oil changed or something”. So should I feel bothered about this entire situation. I mean I’m not going to beg her or her family to adore my baby but dang... my baby’s a baby and innocent.