Feeling like a visitor in my own home
It's been 3yrs the step son doesn't want to know his dad as he didn't ask him before meeting another woman. Daughter!! Tried every trick in book to get daddy's attention after her mum died long illness, again daddy didn't consult her as to who he was going out with. Game on Hyperventilating, skin rash, tears, tantrums, food allergies, diet changes, boys sleeping over, partying in our absence, drinking, smoking, dressing like a tramp, feeble attempt at suicide, so pissed when it was dads new woman who found her.I did the dutiful thing and took her to hospital and had her stomach pumped... But daddy stayed over night... we split on 2 occasions I could see his loyalty was divided. On the 3rd and final get back together as I'm at my whits end, daughter 19 is pregnant to new boyfriend oh she needs daddy's help and support. Emotional visits up to birth I did the honourable thing and showed compassion she stayed a week boyfriend didn't accompany her she said they were tiffing , had her rest dad and I took baby she rested on laptop and cell phone, decided breastfeeding was just too much it interferes with too much social networking!! She left I felt used, does not speak to me speaks to daddy doesn't text she text daddy, always a sob story, am I being selfish if this is my partner's home and I live with him am I wrong to say I don't want her coming here if I'm only to step aside and be ignored ??? It's my home to and would not tolerate my sons treating any one with ignorance.
sorry if it's a bit petty but I'm at the point of saying I'm out of here