BM demanding same day responses
How would you address this? HCBM refuses to use OFW (they agreed that they would use it and now she's saying she will only use it for bills but not for communication) we are working on this with attorneys but in the mean time she uses email and emails him several times a day then when he gets around to checking he has a bunch of emails demanding same day or next day responses.
DH gets about 100 emails a day with work and does not always check his personal folder. He told HCBM if she needs an immediate response on something to please message him on OFW as he will be notified right away and if it's urgent he can address it but that if she emails, he may not get it for a few days. (He answers emails and is on business calls a lot for work so he just can't check his personal emails daily) She will not do it then emails him and says "if I don't hear from you by the end of the day I will take that as an agreement" or "If I don't hear from you by tomorrow I will be purchasing what the boys for sports gear (or whatever it may be) and I expect reimbursement. Then she will of course pick out the most expensive things she can then say she gave him adequate time to respond and he didn't. ( agreement stated he pays for MUTUALLY AGREED UPON extra curricular costs)
I mean really? Should he be checking his email every hour to see if she wrote something? Shesh! She's so HC who needs to make every single thing difficult. She is desperate for attention but DH doesn't give it to her. She can't stand it! Lol So, do you think he's covered because he told her if she needs an immediate response to use OFW? He won't look bad not answering immediately right?? I told her how to communicate if a quick response is needed. He literally doesn't have time to check emails every day and he let her know this.