Violent teen issues
New here and hoping to get some advice regarding Violent prone SS14. SS14 has been Diagnosed with ADHD and multiple mood disorders since he was 6. Since he was in preschool SS14 has been known for over the top tantrums over minor things which can result in violent outbursts. SS14 has gotten better at controlling himself at school BUT gotten worse at home when with us. Below is what happened over the weekend....
SS14 and DH were playing video games on the floor and SS14 Accidentally spilled some of his water he was drinking on the carpet. DH wanted SS14 to move the water some place else but SS14 refused saying it's only water. At this point I asked SS14 again to move the water as I don't want anything spilled on the rug. At this point SS14 started Rudely arguing with me saying I can't tell him what to do with his water. DH tried to move SS14 water and SS14 flipped out. At this point DH called SS14 a brat and walked away. SS14 immediately jumped up and attacked DH crying/screaming he could kill DH if he wanted to and slapping DH multiple times hard across the face. SS14 than ran into the other room crying and refused to calm down until DH Apologized for calling SS14 a brat. This is NOT the first time SS14 has hit DH in a rage over something I would have considered small.
SS14 is under the care of a Psychiatrist and social worker. Thoughts on this???? Those dealing with kids with mental illness does this get better once they get out of the teen ages? How come SS14 is better at school but seems to lose control in the home setting?