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Nope... Hell Didn't Freeze Over.

CastleJJ's picture

DH monitored the weather for BM's state this morning at 5 a.m. It stated that travel was severely dangerous, almost impossible with 8 to 10 inches of snow possible. Well guess who is on her way to pick SS up as we speak...

I should have known it was too good to be true, ultimately just another game. BM is going to be spending 8 hours on the road in this blizzard and would rather endanger SS's life than give DH more time.

Now, SS is the one who will be disappointed. He even flushed an ice cube down the toilet last night praying the snow was bad enough to keep him here for the two extra days. Oh well, that one is on BM. 

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Chmmy's picture

LOL. We have the opposite. BM takes the kids every other weekend. If there is a sprinkle on a Friday she doesn't pick them up til Saturday or she cancels the whole weekend but on Sunday when her day to get rid of them she has driven through a monsoon and a blizzard to get them back here...oh but she asks DH to meet her halfway so my husband has to endanger himself so her and her husband can get back to living their best lives.

CastleJJ's picture

Gosh, I wish BM would just dump SS here sometimes. She never does. She limits parenting time down to the minute. She only offers time that is court ordered, nothing more and DH only gets 57 days of the whole year.... I think the split is 85% BM to 15% DH. DH has fought for years for more time and BM tells the judge a million excuses for why it can't happen. If pick-up time is 3 pm, she will only let SS come out to us at 3 pm or later, not 2:59 or earlier. It's so stupid. 

Chmmy's picture

Careful what you wish for cuz BM dumped some god awful feral kids on us. I really truly cant stand any of the 4 of them except the little one who is 12, he is kinda funny at times and treats me with respect. He still a liar, can be obnoxious, and treats DH like crap but doesn't treat me like crap so he is tolerable.

NeverEnough321's picture

I know this post is older, but I have been reading your posts because they are just so relatable. This comment especially. SO's CO used to state that he could pick the kids up on Wednesdays and Fridays of his weekend between 4-5pm. BM hated that SO would pick them up at 4 on dot, so she decided they wouldn't stay in after school programs on his days and that she needed them to go straight home after school at 3pm so she could help them with their homework (EYE ROLL). At 5 on the dot, the kids would march out, freshly showered. It was obvious that BM can't help all 3 out with their homework and she just wanted SO to have the least amount of time possible. During covid when the kids had to do online learning, she tasked SS, who was 12 at the time, to help OSD, YSD, and their step sister with their school work. The judge said that she didn't see anything wrong with what BM did in witholding the hour, but the CO now says 4pm. 

CastleJJ's picture

Well... BM arrived on time to pick up SS. SS didn't look to happy to see BM. BM couldn't even look DH in the face.