Court findings (BM/BF)
BM stated to judge that DS is afraid of BF as he feels that BF’s arrest was his fault, thinks BF is a psycho and she can’t convince him otherwise. Judge was like, ummmm yes you can convince him otherwise. CRICKETS
BM stated that DS does not want to go to BF’s house because he feels unimportant as BF calls me, has me come over (Which is a lie), texts me and spends his free time with me when not with DS; which DS “doesn’t like.” Judge said it doesn’t matter that DS doesn’t like it, he’s 13. BM then stated that she “did the right thing” and broke up with her BF for the sake of their son and BF needs to do the same. BF Lawyer interrupted, “My understanding is that your BF is married, you ran off with him for a year and he went back to his wife.” CRICKETS
BF's Lawyer brought up that BM used the excuse that I am a nurse and she is afraid of DS getting coronavirus and that she won’t let BF have DS until we break up. Judge said that is “baseless” and asked her if I am threatening to her or DS in anyway, she answered no. Judge said she doesn’t care about the fact that I am a nurse and ordered BF to see DS. BM then stated, “You can’t do that, he will kidnap DS and leave the country!” Judge stated that BF seems like a great dad and she doesn’t see him doing that. CRICKETS
Judge ordered the attorneys to work out a new custody agreement.