SD eating cake for breakfast &update on car
So I guess I'm the evil stepmom because I told DH this morning I didn't want SD16 coming down and eating cake for breakfast! The weekend before last when she was here she had 3dozen of the 4 dozen cookies I had made. I think I got to eat 4. The other visitation weekend before that she polished most of the pound cake I had bought because she ate it for breakfast, snack and dessert. I didn't get any of that cake. This cake I got from Trader Joe's, and since we live 1/2 hour away from TJ's things from there is a real treat. Of course DH copped an attitude. I just ignore him now when he's like that but at least he respected my wishes. I could tell that she had grabbed the plate as soon as she hit the kitchen (it was In a different spot when I came back in) and that DH has stopped her and made her eat a bagel instead.
As for her driving- well she went out to eat dinner last night with 2 friends. This was the texts she did in 3 hours: When she got there. When they were about to order. When the food got to the table. When they were done eating to say they were stopping at Sheetz for slushees. When she was on her way home. On top of that DH was practically pacing and looking out the window from the second she texted until she got home. I know it's her first time leaving here for a bit in her car but WTF? She left at 5pm and was home by 8. It wasn't even dark out!!! And she drove 9 minutes away! Then on top this is her first weekend with a car and she has no plans to go anywhere! I'd be going to see friends, go shopping anything!
And now DH just came down in a super pissy mood and I know it's because from the moment she's been up she's been tethered to him! She went into the office and sat in a chair right next to him and now he's had to take her with him when he goes to run around doing some estimates for his job. He would never admit it to me but I know it bugs the crap out of him to have her tethered to him all weekend. But instead of just opening up to me he just cops an attitude and acts like a real Ahole. I know he would've preferred to leave her here so he could be by himself today but oh well he knows better! he knows I don't wanna be stuck with her all day at the house.
Another shitty skid weekend....